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Clothing that Calms

A wearable pause button for stressed and overwhelmed nervous systems

From Burnout to BreakthroughThe Story behind CALMR

What could be possible with a regulated nervous system?

CALMR®️ People

"I ABSOLUTELY LOVE, LOVE, LOVE MY SCARF - I highly recommend this, it is so calming and relaxing. I wear this while working and feel it does wonders for my shoulders. The quality is amazing."

— Grace - Head of Business Partnerships ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Pilates instructor

"They help me enable my Pilates & Yoga students to come down from feeling 'wired' from the outside world. Ready to start their class feeling calm,"

— Kay, Pilates and Breathwork Instructor ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

It Works!

This works - for anyone as a non ADHD buyer. Met Matt at the Ideas Fest, and had a chance to try on the scarf. Also seen first hand how someone with ADHD, who was skeptical initially until the product was put around her shoulders. The relief and the smile that came within a nano second evaporated her skepticism! Bought one for my business partner who as ADHD too!

Karen H2 x Adult Hug Scarves ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

The Hug you have been looking for

My "Hug" has been the most comforting, indispensable item during a very difficult time in my life. Not only is the weight perfect - not too much, but a very definite reassuring pressure - but the fabric is soft, snuggly & stroke-able. It's amazing quality. I can't remember how I managed without my Hug - I reach for it often & breathe a sigh of relief as I enfold myself in the cuddle I so badly needed. Everyone needs one of these in their life.

Joanne⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

If you have a nervous system - you need this

This has been one of the few times being an impulsive buyer has paid off in gold. I simply cannot recommend Calmr enough! The delivery was super quick, the cape was packed with such care - there was even a handwritten note inside thanking me for the purchase, alongside a cute sticker. The Cape [of Good Hope] is so well made, it has the perfect weight for making me feel calm INSTANTLY. I've decided I'll sleep with it from now on. It's much much better than a weighted blanket which I did not like. Thank you, Calmr, for what you're created - I'm beyond grateful!

Andreea⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Feel CALMR - with your Sensory Hug + Calming Cape

How does it work?

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Every accessory in our CALMR range is as simple to put on as a Scarf

Within one minute of wearing a CALMR scarf, cape or snood, thousands of microbeads activate pressure receptors: you’re safe. Touch is the oldest calming tool we have. It can help shift us from fight-or-flight to rest-and-recover, making stress easier to manage.

Our range

The Cape – the heavyweight hug: for at home, at work

The Scarf – the all-rounder: for everyday

The Snood – the perfect commuter: on the road, in the office

Frequently asked questions

The Science Behind the Power of a Hug

'The Hug': Your Body's Natural Stress Reliever

When life gets stressful, sometimes all you need is a hug. But did you know that this simple gesture is backed by science as a powerful tool for calming the body and mind?

The Hormonal Harmony of a Hug

A hug triggers the release of serotonin and oxytocin, the "love & happy hormones". More feeling of security means a calmer mind and a body that’s ready to recover.

Boost Your Immune System, One Hug at a Time

Research shows that hugs can strengthen your immune system. A study from Carnegie Mellon University found that people who received more hugs were less likely to get sick, even when exposed to the common cold. Hugs provide your body with the emotional support it needs to keep your immune defenses strong.

Build Emotional Resilience

Hugs do more than just make you feel warm and fuzzy; they build emotional resilience. The physical connection of a hug strengthens social bonds, providing the support you need to face challenges head-on. This boost in emotional well-being can be the key to faster recovery from life’s stresses.

CALMR®️: We’ve Put the Hug into Our Garments

At CALMR®️, we understand the profound impact a hug can have on your well-being. That’s why we’ve designed our garments to mimic the gentle pressure of a hug, providing continuous comfort and calming effects throughout your day. 


Next time you feel overwhelmed, reach out for a hug—or wear one with CALMR®️. It's not just a gesture—it’s a scientifically proven way to calm your body, strengthen your mind, and support your overall health. Let's embrace the science, one hug at a time.

Lady sitting smiling in a sensory weighteted scarf delivering calm. Seated in a comfortable leather chair

Yes, weighted blankets/products have been used extensively with children, but it's important to choose the appropriate weight and size for their body. So have comforters, in the realm of the garments we make.

Generally, weighted blankets should be no more than 10% of the child's body weight plus 1-2 pounds. We go lighter with our garments foor kids / youth [they are c1.5kg each or less. Use as comforters.

We advise if concerned, to consult with a healthcare professional before introducing a weighted blanket or wearable to ensure it’s safe for your child.

Just a few references from the literature..

Heinrichs, M., Baumgartner, T., Kirschbaum, C., & Ehlert, U. (2003). Social support and oxytocin interact to suppress cortisol and subjective responses to psychosocial stress. Biological Psychiatry, 54(12), 1389-1398. DOI: 10.1016/S0006-3223(03)00465-7

Ditzen, B., Nater, U. M., Schaer, M., La Marca, R., Bodenmann, G., Ehlert, U., & Heinrichs, M. (2013). Sex-specific effects of intranasal oxytocin on autonomic nervous system and emotional responses to couple conflict. Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 8(8), 897-902. DOI: 10.1093/scan/nss083

Cohen, S., Janicki-Deverts, D., Turner, R. B., & Doyle, W. J. (2015). Does hugging provide stress-buffering social support? A study of susceptibility to upper respiratory infection and illness. Psychological Science, 26(2), 135-147. DOI: 10.1177/0956797614559284

Rash, J. A., & Campbell, T. S. (2014). The effect of oxytocin administration on pain: A systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials. Journal of Psychosomatic Research, 77(3), 145-160. DOI: 10.1016/j.jpsychores.2014.06.011

Krahé, C., Springer, A., Weinman, J. A., & Fotopoulou, A. (2013). The social modulation of pain: Others as predictive signals of salience – a systematic review. The Journal of Pain, 14(10), 1083-1096. DOI: 10.1016/j.jpain.2013.05.014

Light, K. C., Grewen, K. M., & Amico, J. A. (2005). More frequent partner hugs and higher oxytocin levels are linked to lower blood pressure and heart rate in premenopausal women. Biological Psychology, 69(1), 5-21. DOI: 10.1016/j.biopsycho.2004.11.002

Taylor, S. E. (2011). Social support: A review. In The Oxford Handbook of Health Psychology (pp. 189-214). Oxford University Press. DOI: 10.1093/oxfordhb/9780195342819.013.0009

Grandin, T. (1992). Calming effects of deep touch pressure in patients with autism, college students, and animals. Journal of Child and Adolescent Psychopharmacology, 2(1), 63-72. DOI: 10.1089/cap.1992.2.63

Grandin, T. (1995). Thinking in Pictures: My Life with Autism. New York: Vintage Books. ISBN: 978-0307275653

**Where do we ship?**

We currently ship within the UK. For customers outside of the UK, please contact us directly to discuss shipping options.

**How are shipping costs calculated?**

Shipping costs are added at checkout and are based on the weight and size of your order. 

**Do you ship internationally?**

Yes, we can ship internationally. However, due to varying customs and duty costs, we ask that international customers contact us directly to discuss shipping arrangements.


**Who should I contact for international shipping inquiries?**

Please reach out to our customer service team via [email/phone number] for assistance with international shipping, customs, and duty costs. 


If you have any other questions, feel free to get in touch with us!

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**Where do we deliver?**

We deliver throughout the UK.

**How are delivery costs calculated?**

Delivery costs are added at checkout and are based on the weight and size of your order.

**What delivery options do you offer?**

We offer standard and express delivery options. Delivery times and costs will be calculated and displayed at checkout based on your order details.

**How long will my delivery take?**

Standard delivery typically takes 3-5 business days, while express delivery usually arrives within 1-2 business days.

**Do we provide tracking information?**

Yes, once your order has been dispatched, you will receive a tracking number via email to monitor the status of your delivery.


**Who should I contact for delivery inquiries?**

Please reach out to our customer service team via [email/phone number] for any questions or concerns about your delivery.


If you have any other questions, feel free to get in touch with us!

**Can I return my order?**

Yes, we accept returns within 30 days of purchase.

**How do I return an item?**

To initiate a return, please contact our customer service team via [email/phone number] to receive a return authorization and instructions.

**What items are eligible for return?**

Items must be in their original condition, unworn, and with all tags attached. Certain items, such as personalized products, may not be eligible for return.

**Who covers the return shipping costs?**

For UK returns, the customer is responsible for return shipping costs. We recommend using a tracked shipping service to ensure your return is received.

**When will I receive my refund?**

Once we receive and inspect your returned item, we will process your refund. Please allow 5-7 business days for the refund to appear in your account.

**Can I exchange an item?**

Yes, we offer exchanges for different sizes or colours. Please contact our customer service team to arrange an exchange.

**Who should I contact for return inquiries?**

Please reach out to our customer service team via [email/phone number] for any questions or assistance with returns.


If you have any other questions, feel free to get in touch with us!

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Designed with Care in mind

Our founder is a Chartered Physiotherapist and Ergonomist, dedicated to health and wellness.

Made in Britain

Locally produced in small batches. 

Sustainable Humanity

We support those who need a hug or a moment to unplug.